This was me….
Overemotional, whallowing in said emotions without a life raft in sight,
Also me: Helpless, digging around my emotional brain trying to figure out what is wrong with me why can’t I build stuff in the world?!
I’m doing all the mindset I need to do, doing all the law of attraction, positive affirmations, but i’m barely scrapping by.
This is what my life looked like.
It wasn’t that I was short on motivation, or researching.
Heck, I’ve been to every coach out there, but still nothing was truly helping me in my career.
And i felt like i was overthinking this whole, thing, that something was wrong with me, that i should be able to reach out and talk to people, or be able to take action the way other people can so easily.
Being that I just underwent almost 3 years of universal “ready-ness” which is what I like to call it when the universe wants to see how committed you are to your purpose, your goals.
And puts you under challenging, painful, looong and arduous tests to see if you are the woman for the job,. I was feeling a bit like an expert. What else was there for me to work on?
Like I said I had tried everything under the sun. Affrmations, mirror work. You get the jist.
What really helped the emotionally suspended parts of me come together was freeing my masculine side.
I had tried a process last year, reluctantly.
To help what I first heard as my “female side” and it changed my life! I learned a method for “cutting ties” from my friend Michael Sheridan. And now I have incorporated this transformation into my own programs.
Working on the problems and limitations that were binding my female side, unleashed a whole new version of me! Feminine, Trusting myself, Loving myself and super female!
However, I found out that my male side had been weakened as well.
And when this happens we are not at our full power. I was unable to do tasks like outreach and pitching myself over and over because I was running low on the energy that fueled these actions.
How I freed my Masculine Side
Before I embarked on this freeing my masculine side, it’s been about a week, I still felt like I was running across a bottomless floor.
I felt like I was still operating without a foundation. A foundation I couldn’t see clearly, that so many other people seemed to see clearly.
It’s amazing at how much changes each week.
Slowly I started to feel my confidence come back. I started to take actions I would have never taken before. I definitely started to feel more empowered, like I have the power to stand up to people.
This week I have finished a process called cutting the ties with my dad. And so much has changed.
For one, the helplessness I felt is pretty much gone. You know that feeling of trying everything and not acquiring anything for all of your efforts? That’s gone.
I realized my masculine energy had been wounded, which prevented me from being able to “bring things back.” And actually reaping the rewards of my labor.
In a dramatic change of events. I upgraded my energy by separating myself from the negative aspects of my dad’s personality. Which included being distant, being scared to stand ground, being afraid to speak my mind.
The results speak for themselves. I find connecting to other people and talking to them about what i offer to be easy now. Almost effortless.
I’m able to expand to freely take actions i never thought i was able to take. Suddenly the tension when speaking my opinion is gone. i find that i am able to take control of a conversaton much easier.
And i am gifted with mental clarity of the material world. Which means i know how to build things for myself. Which is something that was keeping stuck at the starting line before.
Some benefits of freeng yourself from the negative influence of your father are:
- an increase in mental clarity
- an huge increase in confidence
- a huge increase in self-power
- an ability to speak a disagreeing opinion
- an ability to not downplay your shine
- an ability to truly be yourself
- the ability to attract more people to you for a cause that you believe it
- general easier time acquiring goods in business
Conclusion: my life has been massively upgraded since freeing my masculine. I speak when I want to, say what I want to say, and am much more able to get what I need in the world!
If you are interested in unleashing the best version of yourself: Email me and let’s chat: Gabriellamdidio@gmail.com